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To: alt.magick.tyagi From: catherine yronwodeSubject: [Fwd: Marriage to Danto and Freda: excerpts from an interview] Date: Mon, 21 May 2001 17:09:22 GMT Regarding communication with spirits -- in Haitian Voodoo, it is fairly common for initiates to marry lwa (sprits). Here is some material of the subject of a man who is married to both Ezilie Freda (a pleasant love-goddess) and to Ezilie Danto (a wrathful love goddess) at the same time. Please archive it, siva :-) . cat yronwode --------- To: alt.religion.orisha,alt.lucky.w From: Kevin Filan Subject: Marriage to Danto and Freda: excerpts from an interview Date: Mon, 21 May 2001 09:39:47 GMT Here are some excerpts from an interview with Georges Rene, a Haitian Vodouisant who was married both to Freda and to Danto. The interview, by Marilyn Houlberg, is found in Chapter 11 of the excellent *Sacred Arts of Haitian Vodou,* Donald J. Consentino, Editor. I do not know if most people in Haiti would agree that Danto is a lesbian, although I have heard that many lesbians are believed to have Danto on their heads. The questions Houlberg raises vis a vis "lesbian" and "bisexual" may not have made much sense to her Haitian querent. I've gathered that in Haiti almost all lesbians and homsexuals are married and have children, so there might not be a lot of difference between a "lesbian" and a "bisexual" to Mr. Rene. Even if Danto is considered a lesbian by some, I'm not sure if lesbian women ever marry Danto. Rene's response to Houlberg's query is ambiguous on that: is he saying a woman won't marry Danto unless she is a lesbian, or that women never marry Danto? Peace Kevin Filan * * * * * MH: So here we are at the Club Caribeno -- it's a club by the sea. Lots of "working women" here. GR: This is why I decided to make my interview here about my double marriage to Ezili Freda and Ezili Danto. I know Ezili Freda is a spirit of the light girls, for this kind of business. She is very "hot peppers." [ . . . . . ] ... She took me to a mambo called Mama Luce and then when I get to Mama Luce she started talking to me. She opened the cards. MH: Playing cards? GR: Yes, playing cards. She tells everything. When she plays the cards, I see two girls coming and two men. She says, "my friend, there is your trouble, right there. You have two spirit girls who love you. Each of them has a husband. There is Freda with her husband Sen Jak and Danto with Ogou Feray." [ . . . . . ] GR: When I became 18, I went to the Mambo Luce, and said "Now you are going to call Danto for me in your head... I say I want to know who is the spirit who bothers me, who loves me so much... " She comes like this, "hmmrrrrmmm, hmrmmmm," eating her teeth (grinds her teeth). Someone in the room says "Put your spirit down, say grace." Then Danto took water and put it on my head. This is Danto now. She is blessing me with grace now, because I come, because I greet her. And she greets me like this [gesture] because she doesn't talk. She has to translate through a different spirit, who will give me the message. She talks in some African dialect. "Ganga de ganga... kede ezeke... " Very African. Then when she takes my face with her hands and someone who is there, an ounsi, says "She loves you to marry." And I said, "How come I am going to marry a spirit -- I'm just human!" [ . . . . . ] So when I talked with Danto, I told her, "It seems like I'm engaged with you." She listened but she didn't talk. I said to her, "I'm engaged to you, you want me as your husband to marry?" Danto said, "My son, do that." She said, "I will give you money." [GR rubs thumbs and fingers] Then, after that, I know I am really engaged now, but... MH: Not married yet. GR: Not married yet, but at least I have an idea who I belong to. Should I be scared to live it or not? Danto, she says to me: "You have a choice: be with me, mon amour, or like we say, mwen amou, engage with me, then she shrugs her shoulders, [GR imitates her] or I'm not responsible for what will happen to you." I could die, you know, anything could happen. Well I stopped telling my friends I'm going to be married with the spirit because they say "What the hell? What, you crazy, what is this, married with the lwa?" In Duvalier's time, under Papa Doc, Vodou was a big thing. But for my age, it does something for your reputation... (GR goes on to explain how he did an illumination for Freda, at Danto's request, then discovered he had to marry both of them) GR: And then when I had the money, I went to my aunt, I don't know if she expected me, but you know, it's the money. I explain, I went there to make the deal about what it's going to cost me for the two spirits. Well, she says, give me so and so. And the marriage is where my sister lives, on Rue St. Honore. It was [in] somebody's room. And I give [the proprietor] money for the two weddings. The first marriage is with Danto, I prepared the fried kofa, fried bananas, black beans and rice, peanuts and a special big cake for Danto. MH: What color is the cake for Danto? GR: The cake is very brown. It's about this color [GR points to his arm]. It's a special cake. It's a peasant cake, very rough. But with good savour, good flavor, a special cake. I remember what she said was black beans and rice, and fried bananas, and very hot sauce. Because she's hot, very *pickles*, very hot sauce. Then I made some sandwiches. Oh, she was so happy. She was very glad she came. Green scarf, green, and I have two gold chains. And I don't know at the start, but I decide to put two. My sister was there. So was my godfather, my godmother and my paper certificate, my wedding certificate... very serious... With the witness testimonial, people all sign, the assistants sign. The priest says, "Are you ready to be received, to be married to the Madam Ezili Danto from l'Afrique Ginen?" "Yes, I accept her to be my wife." "Are you ready to respect her day?" "Yes, I am ready." "So you know, Madam Ezili Danto, are you ready to get your engagement with Mr. Georges Rene as your husband? So what day please you give with him?" "The priest says "I don't know." [GR laughs] He says that it's dangerous if you don't respect the day, mister, Umph. [GR makes gesture of knife cutting off his head] And that was on Tuesday, my first marriage. That was the day she chose, because they tell me the day. She says, "Tuesday is for me. All the rest is for you." {GR puts on a high otherworldly sort of voice] When I talk like this, she didn't talk like that. That's been when she goes, another spirit comes to tell me the message. MH: Who is the messenger? GR: The messenger was Charles Ogou. Ogou comes in the head of my aunt after the wedding to tell me that [Danto] is very happy. She kiss me all over. She said, tomorrow morning, to take all the food [on the table for the service] back because she leaves her soul in all this. She has blessed all the food. Take it in a big kivet, a big porcelain pan, each thing from the wedding. And she says to everybody, "the husband first." She puts the food in my mouth, I put it in her mouth. That was beautiful (emphatically). This is amour. This is love. (GR explains that Charles Ogou is an Ogou from O Kay, "This is called St. Charles ... A very good Ogou. He loves children. He helps people very good.") GR: After this was Freda, the same month. I make offerings for Freda too. Because I bring them both money I make Danto on Tuesday and on Thursday I make Freda. MH: In the same month? GR: Yes, in the same month. It's very fast. It took one week. So, for example, I do one on Tuesday and a week later on Wednesday I bring everything for Freda. And the morning after the wedding I take it back with all the fruit. Because Danto's blessing the water, she puts some champagne in the water, some beer, because there was a lot to drink. Only rum she didn't put. She cut all the fruit she put and she spit on it, she bless it, and as I'm saying she says, the next morning, early, when it's cool and I say my prayer to the candle and she says "I'm with you." So this is my Danto thing... [ . . . . . ] When I went to Freda in the next week, it was not as beautiful. And Freda was more jealous -- Freda very fresh, you know, like nobody cross her. I ask her, well, how come you married me, [since] I'm black, you white? [Since] you so prejudiced? She said "No, I'm not prejudiced, I don't like people who smells bad. You smell good. This is Freda. And she kiss all the men. MH: Oh, really? GR: Oh, yes, when she comes she kiss all the men. And all the women say, they are sisters, they say, "You are bousen, hot pepper, prostitute, bousen, hot girl" this is Freda. [ . . . . . ] GR: They are very opposite. Danto is so tough... And there's one thing you should know. Danto, she's a lesbian. MH: Danto's a lesbian? Well then how come you have an affection for her? She loves men too, doesn't she? GR: She loves men, yeah, but she's lesbian... she's marrying me but she sleeps with women. MH: Both? She sleeps with men and she sleeps with women? Well then she's bisexual. But then... a woman won't marry Danto unless she's a lesbian...? GR: No. She might like you, she'll protect you, but she's not going to marry you. There's two systems. One is power, the other is love. Power is Danto, Freda is love. -- Now in the graveyard of my secrets there's a hope buried beneath All this talk of peace and righteousness as left me weary beyond belief And there's this unwanted mistress in my bed late at night She says "I know you're a criminal -- you been on death row all your life." - Bill Mallonee --------------69113E43985--
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